What is My Love Language?

I’m so people talking about love languages, whether it’s gifts, physical gifts, words of affirmation acts of service, that kind of thing. I think for me if there’s one thing that really is a gift to me, it’s when I can be a passenger at somebody else’s car.

There is so much that goes into driving a car and just keeping my day running. Getting up in the morning in time to feed all my cats to a mat to be fed in crates, and then getting myself cleaned up. Out the door. Maybe grab some breakfast if there’s time. Although there’s been less of that lately, getting gas in the car where the price is good. Remembering where the traffic is deterring away from it, maybe popping in GPS or at least remembering from one of the times where I didn’t remember just kind of remembering that pain.

You know, then know when I leave the office just contending with rush hour, that kind of thing making on the fly decisions. Stop here for gas stop here for food. Okay, I’m hungry. I’m not hungry. Look to the left, look to the right, look to the left again. Hit navigation, all of that.

There I think the greatest gift to me. Isn’t time quality time isn’t money. It isn’t things just being a passenger in somebody else’s car so it doesn’t just yet trip around the lot. But just being able to turn off. You know the general awareness of every single thing that I do every step that I take every turn of the wheel, every press of the gas, it’s nice sometimes just a 10 minute reprieve there have been times I’ve had to Uber Uber Lyft.

And unfortunately, I have to keep an eye on the route or I’m going to spend more. A lot of times these apps tell the drivers where to go but for some reason they don’t go that way and I have to correct them or they’ll drive past my home or they’ll drive past the road that’s telling them turn on. That is not why I’m talking about but I’m talking about just when somebody knows where they’re going.

You know, and I can just sit in that car and not have to manage the whole trip I think is really that is a gift to me.